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your marriage successful from the start.
- Know how to build a successful marriage so you don't become
a divorce statistic.
Intelligent
understanding for success in marriage
- Learn what needs to be understood in order to have a successful
marriage.
Understanding
the fictions about love - Should love really be a
major factor when choosing a life partner?
Understanding
the facts about love
- Is love really that mysterious and unexplainable?
How
eager are you "just to get married"? -
Has the eagerness caused you to make a rushed decision?
Is
there a resemblance between your current partner and someone else
you once loved? - Has that at all influenced your
decision to marry him or her?
Is
your home or work situation making you unhappy?
We all want to get away sometimes but should we think that marriage
will settle all?
Have
you been rejected in the past?
- Do you feel you need the security of marriage to have someone
to hold on to and to accept you?
Do
you feel pressured to marry?
- Is there something telling you to marry before it's too late?
Should you listen?
Is
the love you share with your partner based on sex?
- Should that be an influencing factor in your decision to marry?
How
have the little attractions affected your decision to marry?
- You two may have so much fun together now but what will happen
when you move in together? What happens when reality sets in?
How
well do you know your potential spouse?
- Have you seen them in a variety of situations to truly know
who you are marrying?
How
strong are your common interests?
- Do you have different interests that you can trade?
How
similar are your ideals, views, and goals in life with your partner's?
- Are you both headed in the same direction? Can you take the
journey together?
What
about children?
- Is there a mutual respect and understanding for both opinions?
Have you come to an agreement about if and when you both would
like to extend your family?
And
what about the money?
- Learn about different budget plans so your marriage isn't ruined
from the lack of money.
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